While I am certainly not unsympathetic towards Rain's tough decision (how exactly DO you break such news to such a close friend that you've made possibly the biggest personal change one could make?). Her problem is that she left Gavin to figure it out for himself. (the re-active stand as opposed to pro-active). Rain appears to continue to want be friends, but her decision set the field to where it's basically his choice at that point. So basically if I was in her shoes, I'd let him make the next move.
Recently started to go to HS as a girl as well, with no friends. Made a new facebook and just kinda added people, which eventually led to people finding out on their on, including my closest friend.
We never really talked much, and when he added me he didn't confront me about it or anything. Still waiting for when he uses a pronoun or a name, though. I wonder if that thought crosses his mind.
If it were me (which in all likely hood it might be sometime soon), I wouldn't confront him at all. I'm really bad about things like this. I would rather just not risk the embarrassing awkwardness that it would force. I know that's the cheaty way out, but I don't think I'd be able to do it.
If I was Rain, and I really wanted to regain Gavin's friendship, I would approach him and start the conversation. Likely with a "Hi.".
But I wouldn't apologize. I'd let him know, that if he has any questions, any at all, that all he needs to is ask, respectfully. Then see where it goes from there.
Recently started to go to HS as a girl as well, with no friends. Made a new facebook and just kinda added people, which eventually led to people finding out on their on, including my closest friend.
We never really talked much, and when he added me he didn't confront me about it or anything. Still waiting for when he uses a pronoun or a name, though. I wonder if that thought crosses his mind.
But I wouldn't apologize. I'd let him know, that if he has any questions, any at all, that all he needs to is ask, respectfully. Then see where it goes from there.