I think Drew already has let go of Ky. The real question is, will Drew be able to let go of the image of Ky that he has in his head? As Ky said before, does Drew care about Ky, or just the idea of who he wants Ky to be?

Applauds

*also applauds, wiping away a tear*

Now that would be a happy ending I could enjoy!

Agreed.

Agreed, they're just incompatible, like Ky said. Drew needs to figure himself out and Ky needs someone who will love and support them for all of who they are, no matter what gender that is at the time.

*they're

That's called being a transphobic straight dude

Guest, this is me with my privileges unchecked and hangin' out & all, but I really don't think not wanting to tap dat makes someone transphobic.

noved7 picked this place specifically for the heavy trans contingent, so I feel I should preface my comments by saying I'm, like, stupidly cis.

All the same, I feel that I like strawberry, some people like vanilla, some people like vaginas, and asking for exceptions in the name of tolerance seems counterproductive.

Imagine if we lived in a world where people's preferences were just randomly picked from the ether,
as trivial and as free of context+societal influence as Neapolitan ice cream.

Also: bIoLogICalLY FemAlE

You mean yours weren't? My libido informed me of mine once it had finished booting up, and I don't think it's much bothered by societal influence. It doesn't even get the newspaper.

not how brains work

I don't think it's wrong. I mean, if you're against pre-op trans women because you see them as closer to men, that's wrong, but if you're against pre-op trans women because you just don't like penis, I see no issue.
On the side of not being able to be open about it, I hate to say it, but get used to it. In certain parts of the world, people aren't okay with these sorts of things being discussed openly, and while I like to think that's changing, I'm in Liberal Ontario and we just elected Douch Ford, Conservatives hold 7 provinces, and could get in federally. That's the threshold for constitutional amendments. So even in an arguably very liberal country, we're facing having our rights stripped away.
Things may change, they may not, but how open you can be about such things depends largely on the area you live, and the friends you keep.
As far as how odd your sexuality is, I'm a sort of lesbian trans women who's very similar, and still has issues getting more specific to most people 'round where I go to school/work. Mostly I just care about dating someone fem, don't care about parts, and honestly probably wouldn't even date a butch lesbian. So I don't see it as odd.
TLDR: Not odd, not weird, the world sucks about such things, good luck being open

Hey man, I can relate. For a lot of my life I felt a similar way until I realized guys are kinda hot. But that's besides the point. And I don't think your transphobic and I hate that their are people who would say that. Don't stress out to much, their is nothing wrong with being cis and attracted to femininity. You still got a lot of time to work out your sexuality. I know it took me a while.

I don't like some of the wording noved used. But bssides that, I don't feel like I have enough information to judge him. Three short paragraphs that may or may not even be true aren't really enough to know the person (even though some college admissions officers seem to think otherwise) and he didn't say anything outragously bad. Maybe he has a deeply held belief that trans people are inferior to cis people and there is nothing anyone can do to convince him otherwise. Or maybe he just has some small misconceptions about trans people that could be resolved with a 10-minute in-person conversation.

Guest, you can't just assume stuff like they think they are superior for being cis, that's not nice, and there is nothing to support that claim.

As a trans person i personally wouldn't date any other trans person just because I can't support them through their transition due to the difficulties I've had in my own. It'd be bad to expect your girlfriend as a trans woman to get a surgery for your sake, but if she wanted the surgery anyways i wouldn't see a problem. That's just my opinion tho

Ok so few things, first, don't use the term "biologically female/male" instead say something like afab or amab which mean aasigned female at birth or assigned male at birth. Second, strictly speaking having a preference for specific genetalia is pretty normal and not transphobic in its own right. Totally valid to not want to do the nasty if someone has a dick and you're not into that. As long as you still seen pre-op and even pre-hrt trans women as women, then there's no issues here. Nothing wrong with choosing to withhold a sexual relationship over genetalia, with some caveats.

1. You *and* your partner need to be ok with withholding sex until post-op
2. You need to never ever ever pressure your partner into having surgery or starting hrt or anything like that. It's not your body, it's not your life, it's not your choice to make.

As for your question about keeping your sexuality a secret it really just depends on where you are. A lot of people are going to have an issue with you dating trans women. Sadly that's just how the world is right now

I still ship em. You seem to have some vendetta against confused people who are still working stuff out? Why? Ky still sees the goodness in Drew. Why can't you just look for the goodness in other people instead of judging from the surface?

Because people like you incist on existing

According to most of my friends, I'm a nice person. Not perfect, but I haven't really done anything bad recently. So I don't know why me existing is a bad thing?